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    #11
    That was very noble of you Fran and I would
    appreciate a higher level of decorum on this site
    and a return to respect and civility among users free
    of the childish personal crap!!! CWB aside, here is
    something that has always bothered me, and I'm
    switching gears. Let us take canola as an example.
    How do you know what a grain company or broker
    has sold a bushel of canola for to an end user? As a
    farmer, you are marketing into a procurement field,
    established by buyers (mostly grain companies) to
    get the product out of the bin and into transit. Does
    this necessarily mean that there is a direct
    relationship to what the end buyer is paying or is it
    just the local lever to get the farmer to part with it?
    I raise this question, which was never satisfactorily
    answered, from my experience with one of the
    Wheat Pools in the 1980's. At that time everything
    revolved around canola sales to Japan and the
    procedure in place was that at 4 AM Vancouver
    time a price and volume purchase for that day was
    received in the marketing office and the choice was
    either to sell or reject. At the same moment,
    futures and cash prices were established
    domestically to bring product forward as needed.
    As a matter of information, not even the CEO of the
    Pool was privy to this trading intelligence - he had
    to wait for the year end results. So, my question is
    this - where is the transparency where a single
    producer can witness an honest basis between the
    end user and the middleman? I've never found it
    and be sure, there are 2 sets of books. By the way,
    as I see it, the CWB and any old grain company
    aren't that much different - one is mandatory by
    law, the other by lack of access. To go back to
    Burbert's co-op Wheat Board idea, I'll just say
    mandatory if necessary, but not necessarily
    mandatory! Have a good one,
    Rockpile

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      #12
      yeah the internet may be okey but with dial up by the time you connect to the other person you'll each be too old to get excited about anything other than where you put your false teeth.

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        #13
        How old till going to college for a semester does not work??
        It seems online is the way to go these days. Bars are like slough water. At least online there is conversation before sex.

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          #14
          Re college, my wife is 6 years younger than me and when we met at a Rodeo Cab I was 26 and she was 20, we were friends for 2 years while she was finishing school and stuff and really didn't start getting serious until then. She says that she did also take some college courses after Uni just asked her and she said that there were a lot of single even divorced people in her program with ages varying from 18-30. I would say its a bit of an inverse scale yes lots around 20 but there are those of higher age too. And really at 23-24 for the girl I know of more than one couple that have age differences up to 8 years apart and are great couples. I don't think you can get arrested for wandering through a college sometime to just see the age ranges of the students( OK its maybe a little creepy) but I do know that colleges like Lethbridge offer short courses that would give you some insight as well as add value to you and your farm ( if you have the time to take) I have thought in the past that my biggest mistake when I was single was that I went to college too young for the girls as I was the same age and should have waited until I was 22 23 then I would have had more life experience and more money( lol) that said at 23-24 I had my head down working hard and might have not gone. Though now as a middle aged guy I think I should have taken the time and done it. ( though things seem to have worked themselves out) I have a relative who never looked up and went out of his comfort zone because of perceived work and pressures and now he say's he could have hired a neighbour to feed cows and hauled his grain when he could . He regrets his choice I feel.

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            #15
            I am the wife. We actually met at our
            provincial fed of ag annual meeting. He
            was a delegate and I was working at the
            trade show. We sat down to lunch at the
            same table and just started talking. He
            came by my booth after the meeting and
            we talked some more.

            I then called him a few weeks later and
            asked him out.

            You never know, you can meet that
            special person anywhere!

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              #16
              Just married for little under a year now. Met my wife through 4-H only problem was that there's almost 7 years between us. So needless to say nothing romantic there when I'm 10 and she can almost drink. She was a friend who I'd see 4 or 5 times a year. Then fast forward several girlfriends and 11 years later. She was working as agronomist at local seed plant and I finally decided to ask out a local girl instead of a long distance relation (highly overrated). Went to a rodeo and 4 years later asked her to marry me. I always figured I'd have to look far and wide since it's very rural out here. But she grew up only 12 miles from me. Sometimes the most obvious things are right under your nose. And definitely dont settle, the right one is out there.

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                #17
                This is the most entertaining topic I have
                read in a long while!

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                  #18
                  Try Thailand haha...but seriously unless you can find a local girl that likes cows they will be the way to keep a women out of your life, whether it's missing lake time due to haying, missing a winter trip because of calving, or the two months of sleeping on the couch so that you don't wake her every two hours to check on calving cows.

                  Before I moved back to civilization, rodeo cabs, curling, volounteering/sitting on boards, the gym is a good place too if you're close enough to one, all were great places I met plenty of nice women that would have been fine if I was looking for a commitment at that time. My brother meets lots of girls in their local dinner theater club. Also when I lived in Calgary it was almost the opposite where as you didn't know where to start, so dinner parties where each friend had to bring someone outside your normal circle worked great for meeting people.

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                    #19
                    Wow...are you guys ever creative when it comes to women...I will show this to my buddy and get him going....

                    I love the plane story.

                    Thanks again.

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                      #20
                      Plane story? Where is the plane story, now I have to read everything again to find the plane story.

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